Here I thought we were working on things. WAH really seemed to be trying to be nicer, helping around the house, the tension was gone, we started counselling. He's always talked about about how out love was at a real low for him (and I agreed, I just didn't think it was terminal from the get go) Today it came out that he has been using the word love for attraction, he his sexual attraction to me has been declining for years; since we had kids. Right now he has no interst. I wouldn't say I'm in the best shape of my life, but people tell me I'm attractive. I try to watch my weight, eat healthy , keep up with fashion etc but hey, I have had 3 kids! I just don't know what to do with this news. Is this where I give up?
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12
