Haven't been on computer in a few days, hard to catch up on posts with cellphone internet access.
I think people rebel against what they know they should be doing sometimes, then blame it on their situation or sig other. So now, he can't blame you. He's (MAYBE) starting to realize he was being a bum and rather than resent someone else (you) for pointing it out or blame (you) for contributing, he has to face up to it. Plus, I am sure with DB'ing you have been more likely to praise/notice when he's done something good and less likely to critique him for bad things. ? Maybe...that's what I am seeing a little more of now.
Congrats on the babies!
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem
