Thats the problem. My family actually reached out to her. They initially tried the old fashioned thing of trying to talk to her and find out what issues she had with me. Basically they got the phones hung up on them. Then i reached out to my in-laws and told them that in spite of the awkwardness they might have towards me, to feel free to call me if they needed to.

As i was saying, this is not an issue. I can understand how her family might feel. As i observed, i think people find it very awkward to talk to person who says they are going through divorce. Just that it is a sad state of affairs that her cousin with whom i am good friends cannot even call him and wish him luck on his marriage. It is pretty awkward. I am sure even he does not know to tell me about his 'happy' occasion.

Oh well, on the bright side i was able to get rid of 90% of my woodworking tools this week. It was bittersweet letting my good 'ole tools go. Now i have to get rid of my metalworking tools.

I am finding that if i keep daily goals like these and cross them out from my checklist, i feel much better.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...