I agree with Sandi, Alamo. Right now it's all about YOU and your son. Spending time with him for the BOTH of you. Your W is not part of the equation at the moment. Hopefully she can be again at some point, but for now keep the focus where it needs to be.
Hey Zen, I can't remember where I posted, but I recall you saying you haven't had a chance to talk to a DB coach yet, is that correct?
BTW, I agree with all y'all input. i'll stay on the downlow until things settle down on all fronts. I need patience, dangit! My wife wants file in June, so I feel desperate at times. I know I shouldn't, but I do.