I agree with Sandi, Alamo. Right now it's all about YOU and your son. Spending time with him for the BOTH of you. Your W is not part of the equation at the moment. Hopefully she can be again at some point, but for now keep the focus where it needs to be.

BITS

M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11