I have not read your sitch at all but your last post caught my eye

Quote:
Either I am #1 in your life, or not in your life at all.


IMO, if you give him an ultimatum like that, you better be prepared that he may choose "not in my life at all". As I said, I am not sure where you are at right now...maybe you are "there".

It is always better to wait 24-48hrs and see if you still feel that way!

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing