I am no where near any kind of piecing with my H but am following along and cheering for you!
You might want to check out GoodAttitude girls thread "itty bitty baby steps". She is D'd from her H but they have slowly been building a friendship again.
Hope you get to feeling better!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing