How much longer in Separated?

[jon2911]

That's great advice Michelle. She didn't seem to want to tell me what's going on. Bringing up anything financial right now is a sticky subject, because I don't know what's going on with her inheritance. She's definitely having to be careful with her money, and has told me, for example, that she's waiting to get an iPhone until her finances are better. So they must have her on a fixed amount. My friend also told me that many times inheritance doesn't come until 30, which would be another 2 years for W.

All out of my control. I do need to focus on the positives, another one is that GFIL passing away and inheritance hasn't made a huge change in our relationship, which is what I was afraid of.