Holly06 i will try to remember to see the reason behind the behaviour, that is a good idea, but there is no other woman!? Dont know where u got that idea! He has made up with me and explained some of the things he feels and i told him i see his point but i am not going to let him yell or threaten and get away with it. I Forward, thankyou too, i so need to build myself up, that may be my key to inner happiness and losing the aura of weakness and neediness. I find this hard to do though and will need help.
4Peace, Holly hit it right on the head. They will do anything not to feel the guilt, shame and pain. Easier walk away and start something new than trudge through a problem.
Try not to let all of this get to you, it will pass. Get stronger and take care of you and see what happens in your life.