Recovering after a same sex affair - Part 3

[sparks14]

I understand Figg. You have been there as a voice of reason from the start. I was just a little confused by your suggestions.

I have indeed been focusing on myself. It has been a very difficult process, but I think it has been making me a better person.

I know you wish for me to come on here and tell you about what I have been doing for myself. I guess to me, I know and understand what I am doing for myself. When I take the baby for a 3 mile walk, I know that I am getting exercise and bonding with my baby. When I come on here, I often give updates concerning my W and our interactions. I do so, because it is what I am most confused about.

I understand that DBing is all about taking care of myself, but I would hope that I it is also about saving marriages for those that are willing to put their soul into it. I ask for interpretations or suggestions, because sometimes I just don't know. This board has been great for that.

I will continue to GAL. Maybe I should fill my posts with more of what I am doing. Well, I take care of my six month old son every other night. On my off nights, I try and make plans with friends and family. Tonight, I went to a local bar and had a few beers with three friends and talked about all sorts of stuff. None of the topics included my W, M or R. Nice night out. GAL.

I appreciate you checking in Figg. I will try and talk more about what I am doing for myself. I do think I am making big strides in this department.