sparks...you can certainly come here for help...that isn't what I meant
what I meant to suggest is that instead of focussing on what she is doing focus on what you are doing
I would rather read how you are changing yourself for the better than hearing what she is doing
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your life should be lived that way you should live it for you not for what she is doing
it is hard to make that switch but once you do, you will get to a much better place, one of more calmness
you will feel more confident in yourself and will not need to check the path you are taking with others because you will KNOW it is the path you are taking, if that makes sense
