I think that is why our LRT is so important. To show them just how their lives will change. No more coming home every night to their baby, no family vacations, no family christmas, no more family period! My W and I used to spend long mornings in our bed just talking about all the dreams we had and how we were gonna get there. We need them to remember them, to want them, to want us. However, the worst part is we need to let them go to do this. They need to find them on there own. If we push for it, they will surely pull away. No one likes to feel like they are being persuaded. I have given my W enough contact for a while. She knows I am a good dad, she knows I am sorry for what I did, she knows what I want. Now I must leave her be, control my actions and make sure my little girl feels her daddy's love every day
