In your sitch, I do not know how your W would respond to the idea. If you do bring it up, let her know it is for your son's interest. It is important right now for your son to have contact with both parents at the same time for their development. You can approach this way, so she doesn't feel pursued or pressured. Just make sure to keep the talk simple and enjoy the time with your on together. No R talk at all. That would send her ducking for cover.
See, I still don't know. I am pretty sure that my W would agree to more time together with our D if I pursued that, but I don't know if that becomes a positive. Just because they agree, does not mean it is helping. They could simply be doing it out of guilt, no other reason.
I am not saying it IS a bad thing, just to be careful. I just had that time, it was nice, but I also cannot expect to believe my W felt the same way about it as I did, in fact, she most certainly didn't.
I just realized, I don't know what my point is. Just don't expect too much I guess...
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