Please don't expect your W to feel things that a normal woman should feel. This is a WAW with two A's (that you know about) and she's not thinking or behaving normally. That's why it's called "fog". I know she "should" miss her children....and she might, but just don't be too alarmed if you discover she is too distrated to miss her family (especially her H).
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!