Sandi ur question about the physical affair i talked to my lawyer. She say she believes there was one but it has ended and my W is afraid i will find out about it, i will divorce her anyway and use it against her to get custody of our son.
Here the thing, John....if she's been in a PA then she could be covering any chance of pregnancy from her A. That's what I meant by using you. Then she can recall your memory to when you had the wild sex or a weekend together and try to make you believe it's your baby......"if" she were to show up pregnant in a few days. You can't take her word about not having a PA. Don't ask her anymore. It's not going to make her be any more honest with you.
Tread lightly, my friend. I think it might be to your best if you kept some safe distance.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
