Sage Darling, Girl, let up a little on yourself. You H is doing wonderful things to show you he loves you. We are ALL insecure after what we've been through. It SOUNDS like your trying to say that you should not feel the way you feel when it's perfectly normal. I could be wrong too. Yes, we have to strive to move through all those things you listed, but we surely cannot bypass them. What we have to try to do is work through them as best we can and not project all this onto our H's because to do so is not going to draw them closer to us. Your personality is such that you analyze things. I do that too. Big time. It's good to a point because we figure out what's good and what's not so good. Listing those things helps other on here that are not so analytical-everyone always thanks you for your posts including me because we can all relate so well. Keep making those lists-we can all strive to work through all the things you listed in your lastest post, but you are doing great Sage! My gosh, your H is evidence of that! He is treating you like a queen from your posts, so you must be doing alot of things right too!! Rachael
