I've been in your position or waiting for a decision. Not only does it suck, it doesn't matter what he says. If he says he wants to try, it does not mean you live happily ever after. If he says he is done, it doesn't mean he won't change his mind. You will have no more certainty in four days.
What you CAN do, is work on yourself. You CAN start the process of being the VS2D you can be. You don't need to wait to start. You've been given four days to work on yourself. You've been given a hall pass. You don't have to spend a minute thinking about anyone but you. Use it! Work on making yourself the a person he will regret leaving or cheating on.
If you use this time, you are four day closer to being happy again.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
