You're waiting for a reaction from him.
This VerySad, is NOT about him. I repeat NOT about him.

Plus it is having the paradoxical effect of driving him further into the OW arms! Don't text him. Get on with getting yourself happy and let him wonder what the heck you're up to!


It is about you, what are you doing for your peace of mind. Why are you torturing yourself with these questions? In the end does it matter at all what he does? Choose to be good to yourself!

You are invested in this relationship, he is not.

Yet he has you dancing/reacting to HIS tune.

Is that what you want?

BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.