Reacting without thinking is easy and usually disastrous. Thinkng and then choosing to react is difficult but yields a different and usually better result.
Your not reacting is a 180 from what H. expects. He's waiting for blowback. You're not giving it. That's progress.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.