Hi Brian. Sorry to see that you are here... only bc of what it means for us when we seek out this website. But welcome!
I just read your sitch and it is VERY similar to mine and to that of many others here. Following this post, I'm going to post another with a list of 37 DB do's and don'ts. It helped me get started and has kept me focused.
I've noticed that you are not getting a lot of responses to you thread. That will get better. Just keep posting regularly. Don't be afraid to seek out advice from others here either. If you have a question or want someone to take a look at your thread... post on their thread. I know that 2Step, lostinscared, grr, bolt and myself are more than willing to chime in if you would like us to. Just let us know.
The BITS is a group of us that have befriended each other... I know all of them as well as any of here can know one another. They are all great and more than willing to help.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce