I know it is not an impossible feat, but, I am hearing that what I have been through, that all of the "good" last year was a lie??? I find it almost impossible, as things were so good, I felt like we just weren't "finished" working on our M. I believe that a R always has to be a "work in progress". It is like anything else in your life, if you are not constantly working at it...then it will eventually wither up and die. I am just struggling and looking for support, as MV was basically "guiding me through acceptance that it is over, and how I should Detach".. I do not want to give into that concept..yet.. Is a coaching session the right answer?
Me-43,W-41 Married 18 years Together 20 years S12, S13 Wife EA - 3-2009 Reconciled WAW-9-2009 Reconciled again 2-2010 Bomb- 12/30/2010 Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011 BITS
