Those little kindnesses go a long way Brian. Be thankful she is open to them and can recieve them and not take them as "her due".
It's good you recognise your limits of control here, it'a a very hard things to learn.


BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.