Denver I've noticed a change in you. Your not spending nearly the amount of time on here that you did before and that is great. Don't get me wrong, we all miss your input, but you are becoming less dependent on this site. That is something we will all have to do eventually, no matter how the outcome of our M. Country is right, you are the envy of the board. I enjoy reading about your continued success and wish you the best.
Yeah IW I haven't been spending as much time here. I wish that I could, but 'piecing' or whatever stage that it is that I'm in with W is like a second full time job!
UPDATE...
Just a quick update before I leave for Buffalo this afternoon.
W and I have had contact by both telephone and text messages everyday since I saw her last... which was our trip to the mall on Monday night.
During one of our telephone conversations, either yesterday or Tuesday, she told me to wear my wedding ring to Buffalo. She said that she is wearing her's. Her reasoning is that her family there does not know that she and I are separated and she didn't want questions to come up.
Her true intent? I don't know. Probably... but who knows. She did jokingly say that she has been looking for an excuse to wear it.
She, MIL, SS, SIL and niece flew out yesterday. I am flying out today. I had a court appearance this morning that I could not miss, so had to go out later. BIL was suppose to go with me, but had to change plans due to an illness in his family in Louisiana.
Not much else to report. I will try to update during the trip if the opportunity arises.
Thanks for continued support everyone!!
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
During one of our telephone conversations, either yesterday or Tuesday, she told me to wear my wedding ring to Buffalo. She said that she is wearing her's. Her reasoning is that her family there does not know that she and I are separated and she didn't want questions to come up.
Her true intent? I don't know. Probably... but who knows. She did jokingly say that she has been looking for an excuse to wear it.
Wow, that's awesome to hear! Joking or not, take that as a HUGE positive step. In my sitch, putting the rings back on will symbolize to me that we really are piecing. Congrats on the next step in the journey!
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011
Well, she said one thing right, she was looking for an excuse to put them back on.
Denver, you will be in all our prayers over the next several days. I know that you are going to do awesome and I know that you have got your head on right to deal with what comes to you. The best you can do is create as many good feelings as you possibly can in the time that you have with her. Understand what you are doing here is right and you should be going only because it is right and for no other reason. Feel good about that. You'll have your ups and downs but rest on the fact that you are doing all that you possibly can to be a good man and do what is right.
I'm so happy that you've gotten this opportunity. God knows you deserve it. I'm praying for you.
I agree with LP. That is a great sign about the rings no matter what your W's reasoning is.
Have a safe trip Denver.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
Fair winds and following seas, my man. I can't wait to hear about the details when you get back. I wish the best to you and your wife's family at such a tough time.
Try to enjoy the trip as much as possible!!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
Country, FOBD, 2Step... thanks guys! This kind of support is why this board is so great. And yes Country... plan on eating plenty of wings!
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
