Exactly. I just posted on alamo's thread about our weekly dinners with the baby. They are reserved for stress free simple time for us to be with the baby together. No R talk allowed.

They have been going very well so far.

W told me that when she got her place, she wanted it to be as accessible to me as possible. She didn't want me to feel like I was restricted from it. I think that is a good thought, but I agreed with her later that I will respect it as her time to be on her own and lessen the time that I am there with our S. This is a time for self discovery. My detachment will allow that to happen.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated