Sage, Thank you for the post on my thread. I was also reading the Acorn response again... don't remember who's thread it was on, I think it was yours and she talks about getting out the After the Affair book and doing it. Would your H do this? Would actively working on it help you with your insecurities? And if your H won't participate, maybe you need to read it (again)? JMHO
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
