Not Sure Which Way to Go

[downandoutintn]

That seems strange to me. I understand you wanting to spend time with the kids but that's not the time nor place.

It is strange and on a normal night I wouldn't have done it. It was not my weekend with the kids and we changed our visitations to what the D papers said instead of what we wanted to do. I was tired of not getting the same from her that I was giving so I took control and made it more even. All I wanted was a phone call but that is a different sitch and I am trying to keep that off of here.

What I see, is your W not able to handle the situation,\ dinner, bath time , story time. what ever the evening ritual is for putting the kids to bed.
What you did was rescue her from being inconvenienced.

You are probably right but at the same time, one of her complaints was that I didn't take control. So I took control. I guess you could say it is a 180. The old me would have never have done this. The new me wanted to do this.

I'm sensing you want her to start convo with you.

I don't know on this one I haven't really thought about it. Depends on the day I guess. The night I was over there I just wanted to see my kids.