I just got a call that broke my heart! D6's school just called, the counselor wanted to tell me D came to them with a tummy ache (from stressing out), said she was crying and told them she was sad that mommy moved out, misses mommy and doesn't see her much. Apparently she said she was upset about it last night, cried in her bed and didn't get much sleep. She is quiet, so for her to say that means she was really hurting. I do ask her if everything is ok and give her chances to tell me if things are bothering her, but she always says things are ok... Counselor says that is typical because they want to be strong for there parents and not disappoint them. I'm so sad my poor baby.
I explained that I have tried to have mom see her more, but she has refused my offers. W doesn't call at all either, so we agreed she would at least do that more. I explained the situation was complicated and told her I did not wish to go into detail, because the main concern was D. Asked if there was a class we could take me & D to help her through this... Gonna get info on a class for kids having similar issues.
Ya know... Never saw a problem... We play alot, laugh alot, cuddle, tickle everything... Not a word... Really thought she was doing better than she apparently is. Gonna talk to all the kids. Maybe a little one on one time with each to give them a chance to vent.
my poor baby. 