Recovering after a same sex affair - Part 3

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Living on her own (vs. brother's) with an infant will be a huge wake up call for her, no matter what happens. You won't be able to completely detach due to the baby, but I at least hope you detach as much as you can.

I agree with not spending too much time in her new space. I told our C the same thing last night. W and I agreed to at least one date night a week (her idea even!), but she fears that I'll use flimsy excuses to stop by too often. I don't want to, it would make it that much harder to detach.