You have to decide if this is bad advice. You decide when it is time to move on, not your C.
I have gone both routes, but I do not have enough experience yet to offer a good opinion. I have only spoken to a DB coach once. I decided to go this route as my C seemly had exhausted her suggestions and was moving me to acceptance that all was lost.
Giving up and the word “can’t” are by conditioning foreign concepts to me. Probably the reason for all my bloody foreheads, headaches and damage to the brick walls around here. lol
I will tell you the DB coach was good and gave me several ideas to try as solutions. It is a different approach than my C was using. I liked my C and if W ever decides to try I will suggest her as a MC. I am scheduling another DB session today for before this weekend.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill