Newbie post What to do now

[JustStunned]

Pickle, thanks, I printed and posted them where I will see them, but W will not.

Journaling: visited mom last night. She told me I just missed W. Mom did not elaborate about Ws visit. I found out later from our D that mom lashed out verbally at W as W was leaving. The outcome from that remains to be seen.

W attempted to find an apartment and asked one of the SILs to move in with her. The SIL declined. I understand the SIL thinks W needs to move out of AuntIL house and get on her own. That his might cause her to crash and begin to understand the havoc she is creating in the family.

IDK, when I met W she had run away from home and been on her own for several years. The struggles she went through then had only firmed her resolve to stay out of her parent’s home. I have no control about any of this so it is pointless to worry about it.

There was another report of drama from la la land that indicates all is not rosy. Just minor cracks in Ws plan. I think the debt 2X4 is swinging. I take no joy or solace from this. I pray for Ws well being and peace of mind.

One of the nieces will be home from college this weekend. She wants to spend sometime with me. We almost adopted her when her mother was hospitalized, and we have always been close. I understand she is taking this drama pretty hard also.