Thanks for the help. I'm thinking on making an appointment with a MC and if she doesn't go I still will. I'm going to tell her I feel that if she wants me in her life and wants this marriage to work that she should go. We sleep in seperate bedrooms. W says that her space(not exact words) and for me it's what bothers me the most. So that's one of the issues that she holds on to but eats away at me. Without help I believe we will be stuck.
