Newbie- Very Lost- Not Sure where to start

[tdb68]

Need some advice today, folks.. Went to see MC last night (by myself). She is telling me that I am in a "unique situation", in that my wife and I are still best friends, (completely plutonic for the last two months) yet she keeps asking for a divorce. If you have read earlier in my sitch, you would see we worked back together, and then I had an angry outburst, and everything fell apart again.. immediately, some have said she was living a lie, others that the outburst just became an excuse for her to get out?? The MC told me that I have worked very hard over the last two years to become the kind of "caring, kind, compassionate, accepting man" that my W always wanted, "too bad she isn't going to stick around to see that". "You need to take of yourself" (which I agree and I am doing), "she has left you twice before, stop wasting your life waiting for her". We still do tons of things together, and don't argue at all?? MC said it is going to be hard, but "just detach and move on, she does not love you anymore". Am I getting bad advice? Should I be talking to a DB coach instead? I am looking for anyone who has gone the way of a DB coach and how they feel about it. Should I put my energy and resources into the DB coach instead of the MC? I would like to hear from someon with experience similar??