JTB - I feel that way because while W and I ware both working on things, we discuss her pain and feelings, but don't really discuss mine very much. When mine come up, she is very quick to say something like "you're just justifying your actions". She hasn't gotten to a point of accepting any responsibility at all or even acknowledging that she could have had any role at all in our fall.

Don't get me wrong, it's way better than before, but I would think "real" piecing is when both parties are accepting responsibility, both parties are listening to the other and both parties are making adjustments. Right now, I feel like it's a little one-sided. But more time....


M: 39 W: 37
Married: 9
D5; S3
"It's Over" 09/26/10
11 Day Sep 10/10
Piecing Starts 11/4/10
Piecing Fails 4/11
I move out 5/11
Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11
Piecing #2 - 6/22/11
Home 10/11