Pickle, IMO your Ws choice to begin to wear heels over flats is less a sign of disrespect and more a conscious decision to do something to make herself feel more attractive. I am not saying she did not think about how much taller she would be and how that might make you feel, but I think this was probably a momentary thought.

IMO this is a feeling to acknowledge, and detach from. At the end of the day how significant is it?

This society places value on appearance. The manner we dress is a large component of that. Didn’t we all read a series of posts about leopard prints, pink shoes and retail therapy?

Ladies?

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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

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