Originally Posted By: Pickle
but I have to wonder if in my soul I could ever be ready to take her back. That tells me that I HAVE TO move forward; there's no other choice.


There is no question in my mind that you can take her back Pickle.

The question is WILL you.

You have said yourself that she is not the woman you married right now.

IF she decides to deal with what is inside her that is driving her to this ...

IF she realizes in time that you and your M are important to her.

She will be a completely different person than the one before you today.

Be honest with yourself Pickle. Why do you think she is doing this?

Why has she all of a sudden lost respect for you and making these crazy choices?

You have looked in the mirror. You have seen what you want to change.

Keep working on that.

Your W is on her path if she finds her way back to you...

You will know what to do.

Until then

LIVE.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am