Maybe going dark and only speaking with him if it's something important with the kids is the way to go? I'm just afraid if I go dark then he'll take it as me moving on... I'm just so confused and feel like I've made such a huge
I would hope, two years after he moved out and one year after you've divorced, that you have moved on??
If he's interested in talking about reconciliation, you can always listen, but I'd make him prove to me that OW was forever out of the picture. It sounds to me like his pull-back is because he felt that by going on these dates with you, he was "cheating" on the OW.
Sounds strange, I know, but it's typically the way they think.
