As usual, you know WHAT to do. You recognize the cheesless tunnel you are going down in referance to the OW thing. I'm not sure you can keep yourself from thinking about it.(none of us can) You can however decide how you will react or not react. Your doing all the right things Sage. You see the problem and find a solution. Your very good at this DBing stuff.BTW, I'm trying to do the 3 positive things every day. What else was it you suggested I do in addition? I'm trying to stay positive here! It's working. He's not as distant. It's just gonna take time to get him to trust my changes, and to get him back to where he was before I messed it up with my actions. Rachael
