Coached asked: "IAP, You responded on another thread that the OM in your sitch was your W's first H. Let me guess he dumped her?"
Actually I don't think so. She gave me the impression that she left him. She even changed her name back to her maiden name. They were young 19, only lasted a year or two. That was six years before we even met and she had had other BF's. So we really never discussed first M, exept to get an annulment so we could marry in the Catholic church
If W thinks getting a civil D will assuage her guilt, I'm afraid she's forsaken her faith as well as taken leave of her senses. Unless a tribunal grants her another annulment (which I cannot see any canon law grounds for) we will always still be married in the eyes of God and the church.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
