I'm not going to overreact to every idea - moving, new jobs, new schooling option for kids
That's a very solid point. She needs you to keep the family grounded. Let her have her projects and those things she likes to get involved with, but when it comes to issues that affect the children and the MR then that's when you calmly but firmly bring her back to reality.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
