2. The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate by Gary Chapman
3. His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage by Willard F. Harley Jr
4. Parenting With Love And Logic by Foster Cline (the concepts work on a WAS as well as children)
This is one on my to-read list that has been highly recommended.(1)
1. Boundaries by Henry Cloud
Just a word of caution do not get stuck in the mental world of your sitch. What I mean by that is don't get stuck in the thinking about things. Actually get out and do the things that you are talking about here. Put the things that you learn into action.
Also remember that change is HARD. For exapmle: Brushing your teeth. Most people brush their teeth in the same way each and every time. If you are one of those people try to do it differently. Try to see how your body reacts when you are trying this. It is a silly example but it does prove that change is truly difficult.
Will
"The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others." Solomon Ibn Gabriol
