I know that you're right grr. Really, I do. But all we are going to do is go meet for a beer. I honestly can say that I have no plans to take this far. I was even very honest about my situation. Said that I am just interested in getting out for conversation at this point. No false pretenses.

If my W finds out? TBH, should I care? She is having an active A. I don't think she could feel too bad about me having a beer with someone. The choice is up to her at this point.

I don't know if I feel like it as a bandaid at this point. I feel pretty good overall at this point, but I still have my down moments. IDK, it is a real tough call. On one hand I want to save my M, on the other I need to GAL and move on. Tough thing to balance...


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