One of my goals is to be able to do something (dinner, picnic, play) once/twice a month as a family with my wife and son by March. I want to make this happen, but the more I think about it, I wonder if it might seem like pursuing; I don't want to approach my wife and ask her if she'd like to do it, but I'm thinking if I just make a plan with our son, then invite her and see if she bites.