Glam - I am so happy that your path has led to to be a family again. I realize it is not easy for you - but 10 years down the road I truly believe there will be peace and satisfaction.

I am struggling with this concept of "contributing to the downfall of the marriage." Didn't the downfall of the marriage really occur when someone quit working? I am 100% aware of my flaws - I have repeatedly admitted them - tried to work on them - failed at fixing them sometimes and succeeded at improving sometime. But I really think the "downfall" comes when someone quits.

I will just keep working on it!

M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
A Day at a Time