sometimes ya gotta just stop picking at the scab, stop pulling the cover off and looking at the healing wound..sometimes ya just gotta say..ya crapola that this "accident" happend..I learned from it and now I'll be a better driver. The scar doesn't make me any less of a person than someone who didn't have an "accident".
so sage...what is it going to take for you to accept that your m is strong and healthy? what is it going to take for you to accept that you are strong and healthy (and wonderful, and smart and ... the list goes on)?
what's it going to take for you to accept that although there is a scar you didn't loose a limb and eventually that scar may not even itch anymore.