WRONG. W and family win. You know why? Because now you are free from the toxicity that his family brings. It's not good for you and definitely not good for your kids.
Protect your children first and foremost. They are your priority. Stay dark not to avoid your H, but to protect youself and your kids. Forward all correspondences from your H and interactions that your SIL sends, over to the L. Keep a record of everything.
Stand strong. We are all here with you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.