Thanks, figg. I am still DBing. I am taking care of myself. W has noticed the change. Working hard every day to be a stronger, more confident person. Nothing has changed there. I think I have been an amazing father to my baby. I look forward to raising him into a wonderful young man.

I am not expecting people to interpret my situation. I realize it is mine. I understand that I cannot change my W. I told her just last night those exact words. I told her that she was not broken, so I was not trying to fix her. She smiled and thanked me. If she is indeed gay, of course I do not expect to change that.

However, I am also a very confused person right now. I am just asking for outside opinion and support for how I may be approaching things. I am asking if anybody else has had a similar situation they can relate to. Am I wrong on my approach to this message board?


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated