Taking the Long Way #33

[kat727]

Quick need to vent! Ex is messing up the watching the kittens/ferrets/house while I am gone. He was supposed to be bringing the kids over while he went to work. Now they have kicked him out of his space at work while they have temp nurses reviewing files, he therefore is working from home. He says it is too expensive to drive over and that he planned to just dop by every couple of days.

I hate that he is throwing the right of first refusal in my face in order to get s15home with him. Ugggghhhhh.

kat

[mishka422]

THAT BITES!!!!!!!!

[oldtimer]

Kat,

Hate to say it, but it is far better not to have those kinds of ties to XH. Such ties are too intimate and include too much dependency. Best to cut them out.

[kat727]

Let me clarify. S15 was going to be with a friend near our house, no problem. Ex decides to throw in his rights of first refusal though no one asked him. Ok, so ex works here in town but lives out of town. Still thought everything would work out but today he threw that out the window.

So no I have very little to do with him and don't usually count on him. Just showing how he thinks.

kat

[MichelleLT]

Ugh. I'm sorry to hear he's changing everything up on you.

I bet S15 is upset!

[kat727]

D12 is too since one of the kittens/cats is hers. He took this on as a way to force S15 to be with him, he doesn't care about anything else. Just wants to throw his weight around(which sadly has gotten quite a bit larger number since he left).

I am having S18 ask a couple of his friends that live close by if they wouldn't mind checking in on the cats and ferrets. Crossing my fingers on that.

kat

[MichelleLT]

Always good to have the backup plan. I'm sure that will work out fine.

(((kat)))

[kat727]

Here I was wondering why I hadn't gotten received my return yet. I know when I initialed sent it it came back with an error. then S18 resent it and I got a confiramation from Turbo tax. Great, or so I thought. Then today while I was checking the status, it said something about a confirmation from the IRS. that seemed familiar from when I had done my taxes myself several years back.

So tonight I get to work that out. Oh Joy!!

kat

[kat727]

Sorry, I had to stop writing that to take a call and work and I repeated myself and geez had a grammatical error! I so dilike being treated like a child and not being able to edit!!! Stomping my feet!!

kat

[MichelleLT]

Hear hear! I think I'll join you!

I still need to get mine done. I am trying to get a replacement W-2 and still haven't received it. I can't wait to get them done since I will be getting a nice return!