g450 Thanks for your reply. H and i are still m. He is living with his MIL and ow. I am not on speaking terms with MIL because she let ow come and live at her house. She is having the surgery tomorrow. I am going to have my son tell her that i hope surgery goes well. Its to painful for me to speak to her. We use to be pretty close but had our disagreements too. Hope you are doing well. I am afraid im heading for d. MY h changed his address to MIL last week after a yr and blocked me from being able to find our the balance of his bank acct. I think theyr'e hiding $ from me now and im getting worried. He owns his own business.
