It concerns me that you are in strong pursuit even when she shoves her A in your face.

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My heart drops. I say "oh who's with ya." She responds without hesitation "OM." What a slap in the face.


Yes, it is a big slap! When a woman is this bold and apparently hasn't any guilt to tell you OM is with her that very minute....as she's talking to you.....then she has very little respect for her H.

How much more does she need to do before you stop chasing her? You see, you saw the night at her GP as some kind of success, but I don't see it at all. She wasn't looking at you and smiling......not really.....she was putting on a show for her GP. She was giving them what they wanted to see.

Sorry if I'm negative....I don't try to be, but I do try to be realistic. I was a WAW in an EA and headed for a PA, and I can tell you that pursuing her is just making it worse.

You've got to leave her alone and make a life for yourself that doesn't include her. Until you're able to do that much, I don't believe you will be very happy.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!