Hey just wanted you to know; if you are 6 months since the bomb and back in the house for 4 months, that is actually CRAZY, insane progress. Each case is different for sure but after a few years of lurking, it seems like it often takes 6 months for spouses to even start to decompress and begin to believe the changes. You are way ahead of the curve.


Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted